My blog here is supposed to be about technical and business issues, and occasionally about personal development. I am a student of this particular topic, and I think it is at the very core of any true understanding of personal development. I am a big fan of the book
Mistakes Were Made (but not by me) by Carol Tavris and Elliot Aronson. The book discusses the endless number of logical flaws (i.e. cognitive dissonance) that permeate our daily thoughts. And I certainly have recognized many of the forms of cognitive dissonance within myself. The book opens with a quote
We are all capable of believing things which we know to be untrue, and then, when we are finally proved wrong, impudently twisting the facts so as to show that we were right. Intellectually, it is possible to carry on this process for an indefinite time: the only check on it is that sooner or later a false belief bumps up against solid reality, usually on a battlefield. – George Orwell, 1946.
When there is a disconnect between what we inherently know to be true, and reality, we have to find a rationalization to cope with the situation. These rationalizations can pretty much go on forever. Here is a brief list of the types of cognitive dissonance:
Expectation Bias: We belive information that agrees with out expectations. Information contrary to our expectations is discarded.
Semmelweiss Reflex: We reject new information that contradicts our beliefs.
Illusion of Asymmetric Insight: We perceive our knowledge of others to be greater than their knowledge of us.
Self-Serving Bias: We attribute our successes to our personal traits and personal characteristics. We attribute our failures to situational factors.
And so on. I find the process of exposing my own logical errors to be quite painful. The BRUTAL TRUTH about things is uncomfortable and emotionally awkward. But of course, it is better to be honest and truthful about things, than to succumb to a false set of assumptions and logical errors, that limit our lives and keep us safe within our comfortable rationalizations. Left unchecked, they can go on for a lifetime.
You can check out the long list of biases and forms of
cognitive dissonance on wiki